Why is adding payments harder than it looks?
Because the checkout button is the easy part. The hard part is everything after the payment, keeping your database in sync with what the provider actually did through webhooks, and handling failed renewals, refunds, duplicate events, and mid cycle upgrades. Get those wrong and you have customers who paid and got nothing, or stopped paying and kept everything.What is the most common payments mistake?
Trusting the checkout redirect instead of the webhook. The redirect tells you the user clicked pay. The webhook tells you the money actually moved. If you grant access on the redirect, you can hand out paid features to people whose payment later failed. The database should be reconciled against webhooks, which are the source of truth.Stripe, Whop, or Lemon Squeezy?
It depends on what you sell, your margins, and your country. They differ in fees, in how much they handle for you, and in what they support. The right answer comes from your specifics, not from a default, which is why I ask before recommending.